by Lea Aella | Jul 20, 2017 | Polyamory Essays
How to Write an Open Relationship Rules Agreement that Works One of the first concepts I came across in reading polyamory and consensual non-monogamy bibles such as Opening Up and More than Two was a relationship rules agreement. This is a set of boundaries or...
by Lea Aella | Aug 1, 2017 | Polyamory Essays
A Letter To The Woman Whose Man I’m Sharing This post is a loving response to the exquisite and vulnerable “Letter to the Women Who Sleep with My Man” by Wilrieke Sophia. Dear sister, Thank you. Thank you for sharing your beloved with me. I am...
by Lea Aella | Apr 24, 2019 | Polyamory Essays
My Particular P*ssy A Spoken Word Poetic Plea to End the Silent "No" I have a secret to share Would you like to hear it? I have a very Particular Pussy. She is a unique little freak A choosy cha-cha A selective snake charmer She has always been picky and persnickety...
by Shai | Jul 30, 2019 | Polyamory Essays
A Letter To The Man Whose Woman I Love This guest essay is a companion to our Letter to the Man Who Shares the Woman I Love. Both letters were inspired by the exquisitely vulnerable essay “A Letter To The Women Who Sleep With My Man” by Wilrieke Sophia.A...
by Lea Aella | Aug 26, 2019 | Polyamory Essays, Shai's Journal
Is It Really About Polyamorous Vs. Committed Relationships? I AM polyamorous,AND…IN committed relationships.It’s not exactlyyour grandma’sbrand of commitmentbut commitment nonetheless!Unlike Grandma, I’m no longer interested in living the unrealistic expectation...
by Lea Aella | May 27, 2020 | Polyamory Essays
Overcoming Polyamory Distress through Healing Complex PTSD and Anxious Attachment “Own your shit.” “Do the inside job.” “It’s your soul’s journey.” “You are responsible for your emotions, not me.” “If you truly loved me, you’d be...
